This is not where I planned to wander today ... but I am baby stepping my way through things over here and I am claiming points for showing up. Yes, I operate upon an imaginary point system (thank you Karen!) where certain tasks - say, making the bed or tidying up the counter clutter (clutter, I've discovered is naturally self propagating) earn me ten points. Putting laundry away (I may be one of those rarest of rare beings that has heaps of clean, air-dried, laundry sitting about - I do so love my drying rack ...) folded is 15 points and pulling out a new, clean t-shirt for the day (rather than the one I tossed off the night before) is also point-worthy. I don't record my points mind you ... it's just the game I play in my head.
ahem ... yes ... the voices inside my head ... so staying with the brain lint theme here, I have come to confess that I am a bit fatigued - okay, completely done in! - by the sound of my own voice droning on and on and on inside my head. I am hoping others of you partaking in your own homesteading adventures can reassure me that you know of what I speak. Otherwise, well ... I don't know what otherwise I have available to me?
So, baby steps and water goes around the rock ... you see, today is one of those days where my flow - if you could call it such - ran smack into a unexpected and inopportune boulder. Nothing too massive that I cannot shift around it and indeed, there is no other option (a tantrum not option so much as a delaying tactic.) So as I take the curve around the obstacles in my day, I find myself thinking about the rocks that water goes around. And I am thinking those rocks are really the opportunities where I am force to shift perspective, change direction, and open myself up to the reality that life is not about me reaffirming who I think I am, so much as me rediscovering moment by moment who I am and who I am becoming.
Okay ... did that just hurt your brain too? Blame this this talk by the poet David Whyte which has the white mouse in my brain spinning wildly upon his little wheel: Being at the Frontier of Your Identity. I've listened to this talk 3 or 4 times now and only a fraction of its immensity has penetrated the dense outer crust of my mind.
A form of enlightenment may be to understand that you'll never feel quite at home in the world. And you're not meant to. (from What to Remember When Waking)
My mind is reeling.
And then there is this nugget:
...one of the difficulties of parenting is that you are constantly attempting to relate to someone who is not there anymore ... they are growing so quickly ... and you also have this internal heartbreak that they are growing away from you and they are no longer the person who needed you in every facet of their life ... and so there are tremendous dynamics that are attempting to stop the child from growing.
I am sucking the marrow from that bone ...
So today I am attempting to staying present for the me that I meet as life forces me to flow unexpected ways. There is the me I've crafted piece by piece through the stories and events in my life; and there is the me I meet when I let go of the labels I've plastered upon myself - impatient, emotional, sensitive, odd ball - and open to the reality that I am always unfolding, learning, growing, being and becoming. What surprises me is how much trust I feel about that process ... and about that person.
I wonder who we will be tomorrow?
okay, so the paintings make an appearance because 1) in reviewing old old blog posts, I was struck by all the color in my life and I feel a strong pull right now to paint and bring color back in; and 2) the characters that appear in my work represent the many voices that are attempting to penetrate this thick skull, so perhaps I ought to give them their space to speak?